When the personality comes fully to serve its soul…


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All parts of you connect personality with soul & soul with personality!

~ When the personality comes fully to serve its soul, that is authentic empowerment. ~ Gary Zukov

Personality part 1 on Soul Desire Monday ūüôā

I think this truly is one of my favorite quotes amongst Ghandi’s¬† ~ ” Become the change you want to see in this world.” ~ And of course¬†Nora Ephron’s ~¬†” Above all become the heroine of your own life opposed to being the victim.

Yup! It is safe to say that those are my three favorite quotes. I truly live by them daily. I do!

Those three quotes powerfully describe the hugest life lessons I had to learn and obstacles I had to overcome before I truly could manifest my happy, wholesome, prosperous, life and business.

And today I would like to talk about that first one with you. Yes!?

(Look forward to part 2 and three in upcoming Soul Desire Mondays ūüôā

1 ~ Did you know that there was a huge difference between how ego¬†‘wants’ and how soul ‘desires’?

¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† How ego ‘demands’ and soul ‘invites’ ?

A very good way to identify if you are listening to the ego mind of fear is to listen to the feeling tone the inner conversation you are having is emanating. Usually those kind of conversations begin with : “I should….I must….I ought to…I have to.” And they are accompanied with a feeling of pressure and not enough-ness.

Now don’t get me wrong, I know we all have our responsibilities and obligations that need our attention but do understand that there is an authentic empowerment that is fueled by your soul that will give you the energy and insight that you need to skillfully and gracefully master your life without the hustle and stress.

2 ~ Did you know that goals that come from ego mind feel very different than goals that come from your heart and soul, and your deepest desires?

In my past, goals that came from my fear driven ego mind always had me trying to prove myself. I wanted to show the world that I was worthy, capable, successful, and amazing! My goals were driven by these deep belief that I was unworthy, small, incapable, and really needed to earn my right to even be here. I needed to earn being loved. Yikes!

I crashed and burned badly , twice, in my pursuit of happiness, wanting to be seen, heard, and accepted.

During those two crash scenarios in my life I learned about the power of knowing fear and choosing love instead. I learned about the power of manifesting, co-creating through aligning with my true heart instead of ego. My soul instead of mass consciousness and conditioning.

And I learned that I could not manifest all that I desired as long as I felt small, unworthy, incapable, guilty, and plain and simple not good enough to even be here. I learned that I needed to look at the feelings behind those emotions and find out why I believed such a thing in the first place, so that I could begin to rewire them.

Yes, it was a huge spiritual awakening for me. Some might call it breakdown instead. It’s all the same to me. One entails the other.

However it is YOU that chooses to either WAKE UP! to the voice of love inside you or to keep on keeping on to the voice of fear inside and all around you.

I crashed badly twice because it took the full force of life crashing down on me the second time to finally wake up! It was so bad that I literally had no choice but to surrender to my heart and soul. My ego trip had gotten me nowhere fast. Instead I lost my health, my money, my peace of mind, my sanity, and my marriage was on very rocky ground. I was about to loose that too.

That is when I chose to wake up to my heart and soul desires. That is when I chose to let my personality come fully to serve its soul. And that is when I experienced the true power of living a soul aligned happy, wholesome, and prosperous life. I began to feel authenticall empowered every day of my life.

Today I can tell you that there is absolutely no need for you to crash and burn like I did. You can start following the voice of love NOW~ your heart, soul, and intuition. There is no need to longer listen to the voice of ego and your fear driven and conditioned mind.

There is another way!

3 ~ Did you know that when we listen to the voice of fear opposed to the voice of love our bodies react with being very quickly drained and feeling tired, zapped of our life force and vibrancy?

So having lost everything that second crash around , my delusions and illusions were burnt down to the ground, and all there was left to do was to rebuild from the heart. Rebuild my health, my marriage, our life, and my business from love ~ not fear.

During this time I had to undergo a lot of lifestyle surgery, a lot of emotional rewiring. I had to work on my mind set and belief systems. But every single area I changed and transformed was governed by love. Self love and acceptance. Forgiveness. And self leadership that was nourishing, nurturing, healing, and supportive of me.

I very quickly learned to recognize my body as a compass to see if I was on track with love and healing.


¬†….there are 3 things you can do to learn from my story and align your personality to come¬†fully to¬†serve its soul and be authentically empowered.

There are 3 things that can aid you in doing what needs doing, in letting go of what you need to be releasing, and in embracing the goodness that is your happy, wholesome, prosperous life and business.

There are 3 things you can do that will open you up to the rewards of sanctuary, authenticity, vibrancy, integrity, intimacy, spirituality, and freedom.

There are 3 things you can do today to powerfully become the creator of your own life experience to manifest all you desire on a heart and soul level, be it loving relationships, more money, better health, a more fulfilling career, or choosing happiness.

The 3 things you can do today to begin manifesting your Soul Desires :

* Learn to differentiate the feeling tone and voice of ego (conditioned fear) and heart (soul inherited abundance and love). And then develop a strong nurturing, kind, inner voice that cheers love on inside of you!

* Commit to the truth that manifesting, co-creating, healing, and happiness is an inside job. And develop effective boundaries for yourself, your relationships, and your business.

* Seek out those tools, resources, services, products, coaches, teachers, healers, and guides, that most strongly resonate with your heart and intuition. And listen to what they are showing you and teaching you. Then implement them in your own life to invite change for the better. View this as a new kind of health care practice for yourself.

And lastly I desire for you to know that you do not need to do this alone!

Having a mentor that has gone through the personal change and business transformation you seek will greatly benefit you and aid you. Having a mentor keeps you accountable. Having a mentor keeps you continuously stretching outside of your comfort zone.

But of course it needs to be the right mentor, teacher, guide, and healer friend for you. Today I invite you to book a discovery call with me so we can explore together if I might be such a mentor to you at this point in your life.

There is also another option available for you. I have created this self-coaching 21 Day Sacred Self Care Immersion and am currently gifting this course as I celebrate that me, my marriage, my life, and my business have come full circle.

You can opt in to receive this gift here.

Much love,


~ Your Sacred Self Care Muse  & Rock Your Feminine Type Coach ~




  • Beautiful and insightful post Nadia. Helpful strategies to keep us open-hearted and on our soul’s path. Thank you for being such a light in the world. Blessings of love

    Debra RebleAugust 19, 2015
  • That is my favourite quote Nadia Become the change you want to see in this world.. Without changing ourselves we cannot make changes that create shifts for the world. Thanks for your insights and love xxoo

    Suzie CheelAugust 19, 2015
  • Nadia, this is so close to my own story. When I became disabled with a chronic illness, my ego mind took over my life. I had to hit rock bottom to have my soul awakening & discover my true sense of purpose. I love the Ghandi quote “Become the change you want to see in this world” – I have become the Kindness Junkie because I want to see more kindness spread worldwide! Thank you for such a lovely post, written from your heart. ūüôā

    TaeAugust 19, 2015
  • Very insightful thoughts, Nadia. I’ve clearly seen the difference in energy and clarity in my own life this year as I’ve moved step-by-step from doing what I “should” do to doing what I’m called to do. I believe there is a merger between knowledge and intuition and I love that you combine learning to differentiate your soul’s desire and making the commitment to manifesting it with seeking out the tools you need to follow the path. It’s certainly both: recognizing/listening intuitively and setting your intention AND doing the work with the right resources.

    Kathleen TozierAugust 19, 2015
  • Beautiful post Nadia! I love “The three things you can do today…” All essential to stepping into alignment with our authentic self and creating the life we are here to live. xo

    PamelaAugust 19, 2015
  • What a beautiful, powerful post Nadia. Your story from control to surrender is truly inspiring. This has been a recurring theme in my life and I’m learning more and more to let go of the ego and trust in something greater. A Course in Miracles has helped me tremendously on this path. Thank you for sharing. Much love to you.

    Puja MadanAugust 19, 2015
  • Beautiful post Nadia!! Love how you make the difference between ego and soul so clear! Loved the tips you shared! Thanks for sharing your wisdom! ūüôā

    Patricia YoungAugust 19, 2015

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