My Ex-Business Partner Called Me A Loser

… Because I Chose Love & A Part Time Job Over Entrepreneurship !

She told me that my husband would be my down fall.

I would never ever make it as an online business owner and in e-commerce.

Because I just don’t have what it takes. Apparently I am not a fighter.

This was back in December of 2009 and it stuck bad. It really did. Partially because I had just shut down my second business venture and found myself burned out to a crisp for the second time around.

I truly only knew in my heart and soul that what she was saying about me and my life choices wasn’t true. But in my head it did not help me at all that she was beating me while I was down. As a matter of fact only the strength of my spirit helped me see that it was her that was clueless about certain things in life. Not me.

We all have our own life path and our own life lessons. And mine was always based on spirituality. It was her that could not undertstand that. And there was no way I would have been able to explain this to her. Even if I tried.

She was forcing her perception of life, love, and business onto me.

But that did not make it true to me!

Only I get to decide what is TRUE TO ME.

It’s that simple! Really.

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I KNEW WITHIN THE DEPTH OF MY HEART AND SOUL….

1.) How can choosing love over power struggles be wrong?

2.) How can choosing to reclaim safety, steadiness, stability, and security  through a part time job be wrong?

3.) How can choosing to reclaim my passion, my power, and my potential through a part time job be wrong, if it took giving up the business venture that depleted ME of my time, my money, and my energy in a big way?

4.) How can buying yourself time to build a more soul aligned business container while getting a regular and guaranteed paycheck be wrong?

5.) And how can choosing divine guidance, ease, and grace be wrong over choosing the fight, the hustle, the stress, the chasing after things madness, and the endless pursuit of feeling good enough and proving yourself?

6.) Aren’t those my choices to make in life and not yours?

HOW CAN CHOOSING SACRED SELF CARE TO GROUND MY DREAMS INTO PROSPEROUS REALITY BE WRONG ?

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In my eyes and in my heart : It. Is. Not. Wrong. And it never will be!

But I can also understand how she thought that it was. Because her words about me had more to do with her than me really.

My part in this little scenario of drama was merely to choose how I would respond to those very hurtful and very destructive words.

I chose to respond in self- love leadership through honoring myself through Sacred Self Care. Having MY NEEDS met and manifesting ALL that I require, desire, and deserve!

I knew I deserved better. Required more. And desired a whole different level of soul self-expression. I required, desired, and deserved a business that was connected to spirituality as its foundation. A business which connected me to my soul inherited abundance & balance.

SINCE DECEMBER OF 2010 THAT SOUL ALIGNED LIFE & BUSINESS HAS EMMERGED

1 ~ My husband and I have manifested a ship adventure sailing across the Atlantic while living and working on ship. You can read more about that here :  ’11~11~11′

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2 ~ We have manifested successful relocation and immigration to the US from Germany.  Re-starting from scratch and re-building from the heart!

3 ~ My husband and I have manifested first time home ownership of a gorgeous house and an incredibly tranquil backyard, dock, wildlife, and pond.

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4 ~ We have celebrated 20 years of marriage and building a loving life together.

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5 ~ Celebrated my husband’s reinstatement as a federal employee.

6 ~ Celebrated me being a successfully published author in a book that accomplished bestseller status on Amazon. The chapter I wrote was inspired by our story ‘When True Love Was About To Die’. You can purchase the kindle book here.

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7 ~ Celebrated the launch of my website and soul aligned business container.

8 ~ Celebrated the launch of my home study course. Celebrated the launch of my webinars. Celebrated the launch of my Facebook LIVE! New Moon Broadcasts. Celebrated first 1:1 clients to my online coaching practice. Celebrated the creation of my newest e-courses to  be launched this Sunday, May 8th, after my webinar.

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9 ~ Celebrated a perfect fit part time job that supports me in further developing my craft and building my platform. Not just once but twice since moving to the states. Whenever I decided that I wanted a job it was there for me! And for that I am truly grateful.

10 ~ Manifested the most loving, fun, and playful furry friend we could have wished for. Welcomed our Spanador Teddy into our home (who gave the hubby goosebumps when he walked past him at the Albany Humane Society ).

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11~ Manifested a Happy Wholesome Life & a prosperous and abundant marriage in which we build multi dimensional wealth (spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically) TOGETHER over time!

Because quite frankly : ‘Together is a great place to be.’

DON’T BELIEVE ANYONE ABOUT WHAT IT IS THAT IS “SUPPOSED” TO MAKE YOU HAPPY AND “SUCCESSFUL”!

FORGE YOUR OWN PATH. KNOW IN YOUR HEART AND SOUL WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY!

DEFINE AND BUILD SUCCESS ON YOUR OWN TERMS!

If you too are ready to…..

~ ‘Reclaim Your Passion, Power & Potential While Working A Day Job’ ~

….and you too have a dream of developing your craft in a side kick business that helps your heart & soul to self-express….

….and you too have been told that you are an unrealistic ‘dreamer’….

….then I invite you to join the webinar that I will be hosting this Sunday on May 8th at 12 pm EST ~ 9am PST ~ 6pm UK time.

To learn more about the webinar and to sign up go here.

Sunday New Moon

 

Comments

  • It is so wonderful to choose to build our lives on the foundation of our truth. I am on the same journey, and each victory id do meaningful, not just for whatever the victory may be, but for the confirmation of our direction. Love this – and love the photo of you with your husband!

    Reba LinkerMay 11, 2016
  • It’s such a pleasure to be able to read about your journey. Thanks for sharing with us.

    AndreaMay 11, 2016
  • Such power in your words, Nadia! Bravo – you are such an inspiration. Life is an amazing adventure!

    CK KochisMay 12, 2016
  • SO BEAUTIFUL! Thank you for sharing your life with us, Nadia! <3 I love everything you shared and love your unique voice. Lots of love to you, dear one! <3

    Sofia Rose SmithMay 12, 2016

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